Turn-ons: For me arousal begins way before any physical touch. It is the anticipation, the sensation that pervades my body when I think of how I will be fucked. How I will be undressed, how I will be kissed, and how I will reciprocate. All of this is way before I am even touched. Flirting plays a big part. Then maybe holding hands or being held by my man, and finally when I find myself alone with him.
