The camming industry has been growing every year for more than two decades. That’s because not too many men out there have tried it. New guys join the Official XXXChatLive.com site every minute and once they try a private sex cam experience they are sold on the whole deal. They also can’t believe they’ve been missing out on such an experience. For many guys, spending the evening with a cam girl is better than hiring an escort or trying to date for sex. It’s more discrete, cheaper and if you know what you’re doing, it can be just as satisfying as sex, if not better.
Knowing a thing or two about how to properly enjoy a private session with a cam girl will make the difference between a live porn show and a proper webcam sex experience. Lucky for you, we have this list of 10 tips on how to make any live cam experience more memorable.
Choose The Right Model For Your Kink
First thing first: choose the model. Choose the right model! Don’t just go for beauty. Surely, a beautiful woman will make your dick hard. But the right woman will make it cum hard. The right woman is the one who can please your kinks and fetishes. Check the profiles of the girls you like to make sure she lists the kinks you want to please. If you want to see a girl putting a toy up her ass, make sure she lists anal as a kink she’s willing to do. Otherwise, you’ll just waste your time and money.
Tell Her Exactly What You Need
You should always tell the model you like exactly what you need. That’s so she can properly prepare for you. Some girls need a bit of time to get ready, especially for special kink requests such as anal, uniform play, or cosplay.
Let The Model Know Your Needs Before Joining Her Private Room
A good idea for saving time and money is to let the model you like know what you want before you join her in private chat. Most models spend their time in their free chat rooms, interacting with their fans and taking requests via tips. While you’re in the free chat room you can check her mood and also ask her if she is willing to please your needs. When you tell her what you need in her free chat room she can get ready for you before you join her for private and start paying for her time.
Go For A Cam2Cam Show
Cam2cam shows are private sessions in which you will also turn on your webcam so that the model can see you as well. You don’t have to show your face, but you might want to show your body and your private parts. Don’t be shy! It will make the show more interactive. The model will see your reactions to her actions. You also need this for special interactive experiences, such as JOI (jerk-off instructions), and for femdom-related experiences like SPH, CEI, or even CBT kinks.
Turn On Your Microphone
If you turn on your camera, don’t forget also to turn on your microphone. Most men are also microphone-shy besides being camera-shy. You don’t have to moan and you don’t have to dirty talk. However, freeing your hands from typing and speaking your instructions and desires to the model will allow you to play with yourself without interruption.
Choose Models Who Speak Your Language Natively
And since we’re at the talking topic, it is always good to choose a model who speaks the language of your preference natively. There are plenty of girls on the web who speak Russian and Spanish. So if you speak one of those languages, you’re in the luck. But also, you can find American, UK, and Australian models who speak English natively. You should choose them for any roleplay and dirty-talking kinks.
Don’t Be Cheap With Yourself
What most men fail to understand is that they won’t be able to enjoy a memorable cam sex experience in under 5 minutes. Surely, it is enough to rub one out. But again, it will not be memorable. We recommend at least 30 minutes of private chat for proper fun. If your budget worries you, there are ways of making it cost less. On the one hand, you have new models, MILFs, and BBWs that charge less. On the other hand, you have sites that offer up to 30% discounts for private sessions that are longer than 30 minutes.
Make Sure You’re Home Alone
It’s always a good idea to engage in cam sex when you are home alone or when getting busted is not an issue. You can express yourself, be as loud as you want, and get fully naked for the occasion. It’s also better to have a clear mind, without the anxiety that lurks at the back of your head from always having to check if someone is about to open your door, you will have a way better experience.
Don’t Be Afraid To Use Toys
Most men refrain from using toys as they find them either too homoerotic or too dirty. And that should stop once and for all. There is nothing gay about sex toys for men. And sex toys for men are not only for prostate use. There are plenty of male masturbators with all sorts of crazy functions that will make you feel like your dick is inside an ass, a pussy, a mouth, or something that’s scientifically designed to make your dick feel like it’s in heaven.
Go Back To The Same Model
Familiarity isn’t always boring. In most cases, where there’s chemistry, time will only make things spicier. When a model starts knowing what you need, she can offer it to you in a way more epic manner. On top of that, you will both be open to each other more with the passage of time. And an open heart and mind are the secrets to an incredible sex experience on XXXChatLive.
So, now that you know the secrets that will make the difference, it’s time to put them in practice. Go to your favorite camming platform and test these tips out. You will be baffled of how much better cam sex will instantly feel. Enjoy!